Thirty year ago today we were married forever and ever!!!!!!!! This one was going to last and so far so good!!! We are living hand to mouth now a days. It has not always been that way. Tom is very good at what he does but there hasn't been the big jobs now for years. Things for us started going down hill on 9-11. Tom had no business for 3 months!!!! Then the got a hernia and needed surgery . We have no health insurance !!! I use to handle the household money. I paid all bills and bought what we needed for years for the house and land. Paid taxes and insurance everything. I had saved over 34,000 thousand dollars!! In 2010 Tom had his surgery after living with his hernia for 4 years. It took all our rainy day money so now we have nothing to fall back on. His business has been lumping alone but weeks will go by with no income at all. Then he will get some business but then after that is over it is nothing again for a while and things are falling apart !!! The house needs painting so badly!!!! Oh OH I am sorry I got off the subject!!!! Our anniversary!!!!! It has been in spit of what I just said a very good marriage!!! We are very happy with each other. We have had and do have a wonderful marriage!!!
Love coming your way, Zoie & Fern
OH HAPPY anniversary to you and Tom!! It is wonderfull that you have been married that long. We are going on 36 yr next month. We all have and do experience hard times, now days things are so much harder but you have each other.
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Yes Diana having each other is the most important of all!!!
DeleteHappy anniversary! I hope things improve... for the whole country, heck... most of the world!
ReplyDeleteA-men to that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thank you for your visit Goose!! We miss you guys!!!
DeleteWe had a wonderful Anniversary!!
Happy Anniversary to you Tom and Fern. May you both have many many more wonderful years together. Hopefully things will be better for you guys soon.
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I am praying everyday for things to turn around for the hole country!!!
DeleteThanks for your visit!!! We had a good one!!!
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MISS FERN AND MR. TOM!!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Frankie and Ernie, we had a good one!! Thanks for your visit too!!!
DeleteHappy Anniversary, Fern & Tom! That is a milestone to be so grateful for and proud of. I hope things improve for you financially. I can't think of two folks who deserve it more.
ReplyDeleteBless you!!! We had a wonderful quiet loving time together and we are proud that we have had a very happy together 30 year marriage. Not many are still happy together after that long!!!
DeleteHappy Anniversary Fern & Tom. We just celebrated 34 yrs in June. The time flies by!
ReplyDeleteYou looked so in love(you still do)on your wedding day. I know how tough life can be but as long as you have eachother, you'll get through.
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I hope you are right Noreen!! I pray for business to come in the shop everyday.
DeleteTom needs more business!!!
Congrats on your 34 years!!! Yes times gos so fast!!!
That's like a zillion days! Happy Anny
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Benny & Lily it doesn't seen like it has been 30 years at all!!!
DeleteHappy 30th anniversary, Fern and Tom! We are so glad that you found each other!
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I am also so glad we found each other Sue!!!
DeleteHappy anniversary you kids! Xoxo, Karen
ReplyDeleteThank you Karen!!! 30 years has mostly all been good years. They have all been loving years!!!
DeleteHappy 30th Anniversary, Fern and Tom! We sure hope Tom's business picks up soon.
ReplyDeleteA-men to that. He had a job today that he got PAID for!!! Thank you!!!
DeleteHappy Anniversary Tom and Fern. I am sorry that things are so tough for you at the moment. Snuggle up. You have each other xox :)
ReplyDeleteThat's what we do a lot--it makes things seem better!!! We had a good anniversary!!!
DeleteHappy anniversary Fern and Tom! Did you do something special? My hubby and I just had our 25th. We almost forgot about it and didn't do anything at all, which is the way we like it ;)
ReplyDeleteI hope Tom's surgery was successful. That's what rainy day savings are for! HUGS :) x
YES, Tom surgery WAS successful thank GOD.
DeleteAnd yes that was what I had saved it for something like that yes!! I had hoped it wouldn't take all that money tho!!!! When we started looking around for places to have that surgery we couldn't believe how expense it was!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We had some great lovein that's all & a good dinner at home too!!
How wonderful! Happy Anniversary!
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DeleteHappy anniversary, Fern & Tom! I'm glad it was good...it's tough going through hard times, but I'm glad you have each other.
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DeleteHappy Anniversary Fern and Tom, we wish you many more happy years together. It's what marriage is all about, sticking together through the good times and the bad. Have a wonderful weekend. No worries, and love, Carol (and Stella and Rory)
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