Thirty year ago today we were married forever and ever!!!!!!!! This one was going to last and so far so good!!! We are living hand to mouth now a days. It has not always been that way. Tom is very good at what he does but there hasn't been the big jobs now for years. Things for us started going down hill on 9-11. Tom had no business for 3 months!!!! Then the got a hernia and needed surgery . We have no health insurance !!! I use to handle the household money. I paid all bills and bought what we needed for years for the house and land. Paid taxes and insurance everything. I had saved over 34,000 thousand dollars!! In 2010 Tom had his surgery after living with his hernia for 4 years. It took all our rainy day money so now we have nothing to fall back on. His business has been lumping alone but weeks will go by with no income at all. Then he will get some business but then after that is over it is nothing again for a while and things are falling apart !!! The house needs painting so badly!!!! Oh OH I am sorry I got off the subject!!!! Our anniversary!!!!! It has been in spit of what I just said a very good marriage!!! We are very happy with each other. We have had and do have a wonderful marriage!!!