Max and Allie

Max  and Allie

Saturday, September 7, 2013

Hugs for and with Benny!!!!

I love Benny and Lily and I feel so happy that his people are treating him for Cancer and feeding him blueberries!!!!!!  I pray for Benny everyday!!!
When Bruce had cancer even if we had had the money treating wasn't an option.  I think it is wonderful that dogs can be helped now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then there is DATE night going around!!!  So fun to play!!!
I don't want to be a downer but people I guess I am!!!!!!  As a child I never played with myself or another child!!!!!  I was an only child and we lived in a 12 ft trailer and went to different towns every 2 or 3 weeks to every week to every few days.......  Always moving.  My Dad was a musician, he played the piano and  the band he was in, toured all the time!!  We did that until I was 7 and I had to go to school---so they had to stop.  We stopped in Daytona. I lived in Daytona Beach until  I was 17.
The point to this story is I don't know how to play and fantasize!!!!!
So it is hard for me to join in a play with you all!!!!

Love (I can do that) coming your way, Fern

15 comments:

  1. M says she can relate to your story growing up as she never had many friends to play with either. She and her mom moved around a lot too during her early years.

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  2. You have Tom to enjoy date night with, Auntie Fern! Have a wonderful weekend!

    Love ya lots♥
    Mitch and Molly

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  3. Howdy Fern, love is the most important thing to have and like Mitch and Molly say, you can have a date night with Tom! No worries, and love, Stella and Rory

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  4. That's very sad about having such a lonely childhood. Usually it's the other way round, you have a fun filled happy childhood and then a lonely old age. As you get older, Fern, you have Tom and the kitties now xx :)))

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  5. Well, let`s all just give more hugs to Benny!

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  6. Love is the important part, Fern, and you do that so well.

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  7. Benny needs all the hugs he can get and your love goes a long way, Fern!

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  8. Are you sure you don't do it with the kitties? ;-)
    Purrs

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  9. When it comes to play you have the best teachers ever under your roof. Cats are born knowing how to play and they always welcome the shy ones to join in. Play is about letting go and enjoying ourselves, let the kitties show you how.

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  10. We agree, you've got all your friends to play with! The kitties who love you and the raccoons who come visit. That must have been so hard to move that often.

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  11. Moving a lot isn't fun but it makes you stronger and more resilient.

    Traveling with a band sounds very interesting. I'll bet you have some great stories!

    Pat
    Critter Alley

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  12. Moving a lot isn't fun but it makes you stronger and more resilient.

    Traveling with a band sounds very interesting. I'll bet you have some great stories!

    Pat
    Critter Alley

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  13. Hi Fern....I love that you open up to everyone and I'm sure you feel comforted that others have gone through similar tough childhoods. I think that now that you've settled in with Tom that you are now so appreciative of stability that he provides.

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